Woman must be
careful to observe veil with her brothers-in-law.Al-
Bukhari states that Sayyiduna ‘Uqbah Bin Amir narrated, The Prophet of mankind, the Peace of our heart and mind,
the most Generous and Kind (PBUH) said,
‘Avoid women’. One man
asked, ‘Ya Rasulallah! What about the brother-in-law?’ He (PBUH)
answered, ‘The brother-in-law is death.’ (Ra3i3 Bukhari, vol. 3, pp. 472, hadiÅ¡ 5232)
A brother-in-law confronting his sister-in-law is like the one
confronting death because there is a higher risk of indecency here.Mufti-e-A’am
Pakistan, Waqar-e-Millat, Maulana Waqaruddin says,
‘It is necessary for her to observe ‘veil’ excluding her face,
palms, heels, feet and ankles; with all men that are non-Mahram); she should also avoid
revealing her beauty, jewelry and dress to them.’ (Waqar-ul-Fatawa, vol. 3, pp. 101)
One narration states, ‘If any man casts a lustful glance at the
beauty of a non-Mahram woman, then on the Day of Judgement, molten lead will be
poured into his eyes’. (Hidayah, vol. 2, pp. 368)
One’s sister-in-law is definitely a non-Mahram woman. Any brother
in-law who has deliberately and lustfully been looking at, behaving casually
towards, or joking around with his sister-in-law, must fear Divine punishment
and instantly repent without delaying a single Millisecond. If a woman refers to her brother-in-law as ‘younger
brother’ or ‘older brother’ then this does not make it permissible for them to
see each other and have an informal relationship. In fact, this kind of
informal chit-chat removes any formalities and brings them close, which results in the brother-in-law and sister-in-law
falling even deeper into the ditch of sins, such as looking at each other,
casual behavior, joking, laughing etc. Informal conversation between a woman
and her brother-in-law sounds a constant alarm signifying extreme danger.May
Allah make these words penetrate the heart. Brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law must be very careful. A sacred Hadiš states Eyes
fornicate.(Musnad Imam A3mad Bin
anbal, vol. 3, pp. 305, adiš
8852)
Anyhow, if it is difficult for a woman to observe veil with close
non-Mahram relatives whilst living in the same house, then she is allowed
to reveal her face but she must strictly avoid wearing thin clothes which
reveal the colour of her hair, skin etc. or clothes which are so
tight that the shapes of her body-parts and
those of the raised parts of the chest get revealed.